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I found this article by Jeremy Stangroom very intriguing and wanted to share.

Okay, so here’s a thing.

Suppose an 18 year old fella takes some photographs of his 17 year old girlfriend in various states of undress.  Not pornographic, but not artistic (so we’re talking mild readers wives type stuff).  She is not coerced in any way, has no objections to him possessing the photographs, and he will never show them to anybody else.

They split up a few years later.  She’s happy for him to keep the photographs. Fast forward 25 years. He still possesses the photographs.  He’s now in his mid-40s, and he hasn’t been in touch with his old girlfriend for some 20 years, so he has no idea whether she’d mind that he still has the photos (of course, he recognises that she might mind).

So various questions arise: (more…)

Seven Pounds is definitely a must see if you like very thought-provoking heart wrenching movies.  Not to spoil the secret plot for those who haven’t seen it yet, I ask this question for all those who have… (more…)

Hope you got what you wanted without to many surprises!!!

Once upon a time a man appeared in a village and announced to the villagers that he would buy monkeys for $10 each.

The villagers, seeing that there were loads of monkeys around, went out to the forest and started catching them left and right.  The man bought thousands at $10 and, as supply started to diminish, the villagers stopped their effort.

He then announced that he would now buy monkeys at $20 each. (more…)

A shepherd controls his flock of sheep using just a poster of a wolf.  I can’t help but wonder if this methodology is used on people as well. 

Can you think of any possible examples of this in your life?

Consider this before you rush to judge.

For an industry that many people won’t admit they’ve ever patronized, pornography has had an amazing impact on virtually every new medium, from cave painting to photography. Dirty pictures have been credited with ensuring the future of the VCR, boosting cable TV subscriptions, helping to kill off the Betamax and HD DVD formats, and (perhaps most important) driving the growth of the Internet.

Here are 12 ways porn has changed the web: (more…)

Millions of these shocking beermats are being distributed to German clubs and pubs to remind youngsters how their night could end.

 

Decades after a notorious experiment, scientists have found test subjects are still willing to inflict pain on others – if told to by an authority figure. (more…)

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Lately I’ve come across a lot of people who claim not to be doing what they want in life, hence one of the main reasons why I started doing my group sessions.  Although I don’t have a “one size fits all’ solution”, I do believe it starts with really knowing what you want out of life.

A recent conversation with one of my fellow thinkers brought me to the conclusion that (more…)

Le Trung has spent years working on Aiko, his £14,000 fembot girlfriend who is made of latex and electronics.  The silicon stunner, 32-23-33, can recognise faces and objects and even respond to touch thanks to a series of sensor positioned around her body

But despite including sensors in places that really shouldn’t exist on a plastic doll Trung insists he has never taken part in robot love. (more…)

I’ve learned that your family won’t always be there for you. People who aren’t related to you can show more of a genuine support for you as well as your goals.  It might sound strange, but they will actually care for or even love you more.  Families aren’t biological!

A British design company have launched a new product to help children concentrate at school…pre-chewed pencils.

The company, called Concentrate, says the pencils look like they have already been chewed making pupils less likely to put them in their mouths.

And they say this is a cheap but effective way of encouraging youngsters to get their teeth into their lessons instead.

Concentrate specialises in products to help kids at school and identify why they get distracted or are unable to focus in class, claim the chewed end encourages them to get thinking straight away.

Be sure to tune in at 9am tomorrow morning and I’ll be sure to make it a “Thank You And You’re Welcome” moment!!!

I’m really looking forward to vibing with these guys…

 

Many scientists assume people have sex for simple and straightforward reasons such as to experience sexual pleasure or to reproduce, but new research at The University of Texas at Austin reveals hundreds of varied and complex motivations that range from the spiritual to the vengeful.

After conducting one of the most comprehensive studies on why people have sex, psychology researchers David Buss and Cindy Meston uncovered 237 motivations, which appear in the August issue of Archives of Sexual Behavior. (more…)

President George W. Bush with Darfur human rights activist Dr Halima Bashir.

Sometimes when I see a bad performance and people still clap…I wonder if they’re clapping because they liked what they saw or because they’re happy it’s over?

Excerpt from THANK YOU AND YOU’RE WELCOME

A concept by Dutch design studio buroJET, ‘Plano’ gives a whole new dimension to folding furniture.  It’s designed for those who have limited living space using absolutely no floor space.

I always dig creative solutions that have really dope aesthetics!  (more…)

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What do you think that guy at the top in the black shirt is thinking?

I can grasp how people come to find their talents like drawing, sports, music, cooking or even mechanics.  But what was going on for someone to initially say to themselves…”you know what, I think I’m going to try to twist my body in the most unnatural way possible!!!”

I wonder if a significant other was involved?

In the BMT series, the objective is to have a conversation based around the same 3 questions with various people who are successful in their field. The goal is to reveal that behind every success…there is a business mind thinking!

BMT Episode 2 features the very successful and equally blunt Ronn Torossian, Founder/CEO of 5W Public Relations. 5W Public Relations is a full-service public relations firm maintaining practice areas in consumer, technology, health and wellness, entertainment, lifestyle, fashion, and corporate communications. 5WPR’s energetic, fast-paced, and focused culture earned the firm a spot on the INC. 500 list in 2007 and the title of “fastest-growing agency” three years in a row.

Brace yourself to hear an exchange of ideas that’s never presented on a typical network or cable business show. If you ever longed to hear a very honest and mostly unedited perspective on how the mind of a successful entrepreneur really thinks, this episode is tailored made for you!!!

This picture invokes many unanswered questions…don’t you think???!!!

I’m cool with being considered uncool for not understanding the point of this.

These may look like photographs, but these amazing pictures are the creation of the Spanish artist Juan Francisco Casas, who creates his large artworks by using just a blue ballpoint pen.  He uses up to four 14p ballpoints on one picture, and his works are already a sell-out at exhibitions. (more…)

She was born in New York City to a Japanese father and German mother and is the oldest of four siblings.  She studied piano as a child, and performed at Carnegie Hall twice before the age of 15.  By 16 she taught English at Tsuruga College in Japan.  She won a full academic scholarship to Rutgers University and is a member of Mensa.   Her film career lasted from 1993 until 2003.

My name is… (more…)

This “The Thinker’s Thoughts” is inspired by a recent conversation with Kanye. With all the backlash that he’s receiving from just expressing his opinion, I thought this was a great time for me to throw my own into the mix.  This is not an attempt to come to his defense, but more me offering my perspective for consideration.  I fear the opposing side not having any competition.

First, what is the root cause for the backlash?  Is it over WHAT is being said or WHY is it being said?  It’s seems that his intent is often lost over the content.  I’m a firm believer in intent over content.  I know it’s the only thing that can truly define an action.  I find that the most accurate response to something begins with a clear understanding of why it was done.

For example, if someone was to suddenly push you to the ground, the best response is to ask…”why did you push me?”  Now I’m not saying that you have to be smiling from ear to ear when you ask, but that question should still be first.  Their answer should/will have the biggest impact on what’s the most appropriate thing for you to do next.

Scenario 1, they said their reason was to prevent you from getting hit by a bus.  Most likely your reaction would be to hug them while offering many thanks.

Scenario 2, they said their reason was some explanation that boiled down to them just hating on your outfit.  Never one to promote violence, yet I can understand why a quick kung fu chop to the neck region would be somewhat appropriate in this case.

Think about it…same push but different response.  That’s what I call the power of intent!!!

So after all that, what’s Kanye’s intent? I’m not qualified to say for certain, but I think it’s very similar to my own…to help others with original, ground-breaking, innovative artistic expressions while never losing a strong sense of self in the process.  One aspect of doing this is being bold enough to go beyond what’s accepted as “the norm”.  I’ve come to understand that being possibly misunderstood or even rejected at first is something that’s just part of this journey.

When the prime objective is the preservation of “the norm”, my thought process is generally at conflict.  One way that I cope is by not being too dependent upon, or too closely involved with what’s considered “the norm”.  And I don’t think this makes me any better or worse than anyone…it just makes me, ME!  Unfortunately the masses are conditioned to initially reject individual expressions of self…regardless of the intent.

This is just my opinion.  And I know that the best thing about an opinion is everybody has a right to one…regardless of how wrong they are!!!